Discover what you’re here to do.
Learn how you’re wired to contribute and then do something about it.
"It has been said that the two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."
Together, we explore the ‘why’.
Then you begin to build.
A 47-year-old, fully booked one month after launching a pet care company.
An 80-year-old, planning her first event within a week of starting a hospitality business.
The Problem:
You know you have something to give. You’ve felt it when you’re building, writing, creating, teaching, serving, and the hours disappear.
Then Monday comes, and your life uses none of it.
So you wait. For the right idea. The right time. Someone’s permission. You stay busy. You help everyone else get where they’re going. Years pass, and one question gets louder: What am I here for?
Not knowing costs you.
Your energy. Work that doesn’t fit wears you out in a way rest can’t fix.
Your direction. With no reason to say yes to, you say yes to everything, and your calendar fills with other people’s priorities.
Your peace. You compare yourself to people who seem sure, and you wonder if this is all there is.
Your impact. Your family, your work and your community are missing what only you can give.
It compounds. Every year without an answer makes the next one harder to start.
Your gifts don’t disappear. They go unused.
The Method:
I help you find what you’re here to contribute, then you start taking action.
We name your gifts, find where they belong and decide your first move. Then we build it: a business, a role, a program, a new way of showing up in your family and community.
We also check what’s driving it. Gifts used out of care for others grow and last. Fuelled by guilt, shame, fear, or self-protection, they shrink you and everyone around you. Most of us have both running at once. I help you see which one is leading, and shift it towards a healthier expression.
Purpose shows up when your gifts are used to serve the world.
You wake up knowing what the day is for.
Your work gives you energy instead of taking it.
You say yes with conviction and no without guilt.
You stop comparing yourself to other people, because you’re no longer running a race that was never yours.
The people around you get the best of you.
Work with Me
1. Core Contribution Session (90 minutes)
We go through your assessment results together. You leave knowing how you’re wired to contribute, your strongest gifts, where you feel pulled to use them and what’s driving you under pressure, plus a clear next step.
Best for: anyone who wants clarity before they commit to anything.
2. Six-Month Program
For when you’re ready to act. It starts with a full day in person with me, in Redding, California (I offer a select few “on the road” intensives). You’ll walk away from that day with greater clarity around how you are wired to contribute, how that contribution is uniquely expressed through you, and a blueprint to propel you forward.
Best for: people ready to build.
Workshops, Retreats & Speaking
Help your team or group find what they’re here to contribute. I lead workshops, retreats and keynotes that help people name their gifts, see where they belong and leave with a clear next step. After ten years of coaching leaders and individuals, I keep these sessions practical, honest and personal, so people go back to their work and their lives with direction. Based in Redding, California, and in person wherever you are.
“You ended up being one of the absolute best keynote speakers Lotus Network has had the pleasure of working with. Your presentation on shame and guilt captivated everyone's attention and made us all take a deep dive and recognize the dawning of a much-needed consciousness. You were professional, entertaining, funny, insightful, and mesmerizing. Your powerful message was enhanced by your easy-going and comedic manner which drew the audience in from the moment you stepped on the stage.”
— Lisa Cook and Leslie Heins, Co-Founders | Lotus Network
